Get an Evaluation of your Couple's Energy Field
After familiarizing yourself with the contents of this page, you may wish to get a reading of your couple's collective energy field and see how it resonates with your personal experience of its dynamics, strengths and weaknesses.
A chart of the reading will be forwarded to you along with an interpretation of what this might represent in your relationship experience. You may be surprised at the accuracy of the evaluation!
You can then have healing work done on your couple by setting up healing sessions. The progress of the work is tracked as shown below.
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Two persons in harmony - Two persons in love
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Healing Work for Couples
A couple relationship can be improved by personal work of one or both individuals and/or in couple's therapy in which both individuals are present to work on the relationship.
Individual Therapy
In individual therapy one person studies, with the assistance of the therapist, early wounding and personal dynamics developed through life experiences. These experiences lead to the creation of beliefs and images which in turn generate strategies to protect one's self in relationship. These limit the ability to be in nourishing relationships with our environment.
Personal work cannot work on the relationship because both persons are not present. It can only work directly on one of the two people and this affects the relationship inasmuch as one person changes its way of relating to another.
Couple's Therapy
Couple's therapy, with the assistance of a therapist, helps to bring light to the dynamics of the relationship and transform them. This leads to a more harmonious relationship.
Energy Work for Couples
it is also possible to work energetically on the collective field created by a couple and add a powerful tool to support and accelerate the improvement in the relationship. This work is done on the couple's energy field and on the relational cords that exist between any two people in relationship.
We create these cords in all the relationships that we get involved in. Depending on the interaction between the two individuals, these cords can accumulate stagnant energy or can even be pulled out. This creates a much more difficult relationship. These cords can be cleared and repaired and this has a positive effect on the relationship.
The Couple's Energy Field - How Energy Work Applies to Couples
A couple is a collective of two individuals and therefore a collective of their energy dynamics. The energy field and dynamics of each individual in the group interacts with the other to generate couple's relational dynamics.
Just as individual energy fields can be read and worked on to bring about healing, so can that of the couple. The work acts on the collective to bring about alignment and harmonization of how each individual's contribution affects the couple. The net result is a more creative and more harmonious experience of relationship.
This work is done using Brennan Healing Science, a 4-year program in energy work of which Roland is an Advanced Studies graduate.
Work is charted, tracked and visually represented using the Chakra Charging Method (Copyright Roland Berard).
The Chakras
The couple's energy field, as a collective of the two individuals, also has energy centers (called Chakras, a word which means Wheel in Sanskrit). There are 7 main chakras, which are doorways through which we relate to our environment.
When any of these chakras are not functioning well, the ability to relate is affected and the life experience is not as harmonious as it could be.
The area of relationship for each chakra is as follows:
1st - Groundedness - this is the connection to reality and sense of belonging. It also governs vitality.
2nd - Creativity and Sexuality - the quality and quantity of creativity and the capacity to give and receive physical, emotional and spiritual pleasure including sensuality, sexuality and libido.
3rd - Sense of purpose - reflects how the couple feels about its place in world and its contribution to society. It also governs its intention for its own well-being (absence of internal sabotage).
4th - Heart - affects the capacity to open to and feel love, affection and intimacy. It also affects the ability to go with the flow and not force things to be "my way".
5th - Communication - affects the couple's ability to communicate within and without, and how it feels about its expression in society and in the community.
6th - Ideas and concepts - reflects the ability to understand and visualize concepts between each other. It also reflects the ability to bring them into reality and execute plans.
7th - Connection to the Greater Whole - affects the feeling of being connected to the Whole and Humanity.
Modifiers
Modifiers is a term used to group the chakras that relate to Reason, Emotion or Will.
Ideally, decisions should be taken from a balanced place of Reason, Will and Emotion.
All couples operate using a stronger (major) and a weaker (minor) Modifier. In our society, the strong one is usually Reason and/or Will, the weak one being Emotion. When that is the case, it means that decisions are taken based on Reason and/or Will rather than taking into account the emotional component each individual.
Healing work will tend to strengthen the weaker modifier and bring it into balance with the others, leading to a more balanced approach to decision-making and/or action.
Group Hara or intention
The couple's ability to be harmonious and productive is also directly related to the alignment and connection of its intention to exist with its mission and its connection to the support systems in its environment, as well as to its Divine Essence.
This connection, known as the Hara Line (see article above), is sometimes distorted or broken. This directly affects the couple's ability to fulfill its life purpose.
Healing the Hara Line can be done using Brennan Healing Science. This is carried out during the course of a healing session.
Healing Work on the Couple
Healing work on couples can be done in person or remotely.
An appointment is scheduled for a healing session and the relevant information is communicated to Roland prior to or at the appointed time.
During the session the energy field and/or Hara Line are worked on by Roland. An email is sent at the completion of the session with an interpretation of the reading of the energy field. A summary of the work done is included as well as suggestions on how to work with the difficulties or weaknesses perceived during the session.
The reading of the energy field taken before each session is tabulated on a chart so it can be tracked over time as shown in the Example Case below. The accompanying graphs visually display the progress of work.
CASE STUDY
The chart, pictorial and graphs below show the initial field assessment and demonstrate the changes in the energy field through subsequent sessions with a couple that I will call John and Mary (the names have been changed to respect confidentiality).
Initial
Assessment of the Field
The initial assessment is a pictorial representation of the couple's chakras at the time of the initial reading of the energy field before the first session. The dysfunctional chakras are shaded.
"A" refers to the front aspect of the chakra and "B" refers to the rear aspect of the chakras.
The difficulties experienced by this couple are reflected by the dysfunctional chakras (shaded) which correspond directly to these difficulties.
In this case, we can see that chakras 7, 5B, 3B, 2B, 4A, and 3A are functioning well as they are not shaded.
Chakras 6A, 6B, 5A, 4B, 2A and 1 are shaded, which indicates that they are dysfunctional and are not harmonious.
Here is what this represents in this relationship:
1st - Groundedness and Sense of Belonging
This chakra is not functioning harmoniously. Either the couple is experiencing difficulty in their sense of belonging to the couple or they are not grounded as a couple in their social milieu.
In this case, the couple had recently moved to a new city, closer to their families but the decision had not been completely unanimous between them. They were experiencing difficulties integrating into the new home and were also having problems with the foundations in their home. Relationships with the immediate families were stressed.
2nd - Creativity and Sexuality
The rear aspect 2B (libido, creative energy) is working well while the front aspect 2A ( quality of sexual experience, creativity in the couple) is not working well.
This indicates that creative energy and a strong libido are present but the quality of giving and receiving pleasure still has room for improvement.
3rd - Sense of the couple's purpose
Both aspects (3A and 3B) are working harmoniously. This couple has a good sense of purpose as a couple within the Universe and its intention towards the health of the relationship is strong (i.e. no self-sabotage).
This was evident during our first session - both expressed a real desire for closeness and to reinstate positive energy and dynamism in their relationship as well as a need to give a new sense to their partnership.
4th - Heart
4A is working well. The couple can feel their love for each other. However, 4B (rear aspect) is shaded which indicates a dysfunction.
The rear aspect is about the use of will in the relationship. When this is not harmonious, it means that one or both partners push to get things to happen. Things don't flow effortlessly and this leads to a stressed relationship.
Their love for each other was palpable in the room. On of the partners became conscious and acknowledged the tendency to force things to happen when this was explained using the diagram.
5th - Communication
The rear aspect (5B) is working well. This means that the couple feels good about how they express as a couple in society. However, the front aspect (5A) is dysfunctional, which means that there are difficulties in expressing oneself, asking for needs and taking in (allowing to receive or let help in).
6th - Understanding Concepts and Manifesting Ideas Practically
Both aspects are not working well in this couple. This indicates that exchanging ideas and understanding the other's concept is not easy, and that when there is a plan or project to execute, it never seems to get off the ground.
This was confirmed by both partners during the first session.
7th - Connection to the Greater Whole
This chakra is working well for this couple. They are connected to their spirituality as a couple.
Our Work Together
We worked together for four session at one or two week intervals, as shown on the charts and graphs below.
At the 2nd session, a new dynamism and closeness had been experienced between them. They no longer felt like they we in "neutral". They both had done some soul searching and were better able to communicate together and listen to each other. They became aware of their weak sense of belonging and had begun to elaborate projects to transform their living environment. Things were much more fluid.
After the 4th session, they felt there was sufficient improvement to allow them to take a break in order to integrate all of the work that had taken place. Both felt move involved and more solid in their relationship. A follow-up a month or two later confirmed that this was still the case.
Chart
of Energy Center Readings
The following chart indicates the readings on the couple's chakras before each healing session. Dysfunctional chakras are shaded.
Each successive line of the chart indicates less shaded areas, and is representative of the healing process as fewer and fewer chakras are dysfunctional. The field is literally cleared of debris and stagnant energy which gets in the way of harmony, as can be seen by the reduced amount of grey in each successive row.
Overall
Progress
This graph displays how the group's energy increases (upper line on the graph) while the number of dysfunctional chakras decreases over time (lower line on the graph), indicating a more open and harmonious field. This of course leads to better understanding of the issues, better communication and a better sense of belonging.
Graph
of Modifiers
In this Case Study, the major modifier were Reason (yellow) and Will (red), and the weaker one Emotion (green). The energy field reveals that Reason and Will prevailed over Emotions in the decision-making process.
The
graph of modifiers shows the effect over time as the lines move closer to each other and the modifiers become more balanced.
Over the short duration in which energy work was done, the graph shows that, in this case, the lines have moved further apart rather than closer together.
Since the lines are not yet fully together, further work needs to bring them into balance. Over time, one would expect that they would move closer together and stabilize.
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